Is Getting/Giving Oral Sex Cheating?

 

 

I’ve heard this question asked quite a few times and I can’t believe that people are confused about this.   It doesn’t matter how you put it, it is what it is.  People try to play with words and trivialize what it is.  Here’s my take…

Oral sex IS cheating.  First off it’s called oral sex!  Any form of sex with someone other than the person you are with is cheating.  There are no two ways about it.  It doesn’t make a difference if you’re giving it or getting it. 

Second of all, how did you put yourself in this compromising situation?  You had to lie at some point whether it was before or after the deed was done. 

If you are in a committed relationship why would you be giving someone oral sex?  Especially if that’s all it was.  Sheeit if you’re gonna cheat you might as well go all out because this could damn well cost you your relationship!  Better be some good stuff! 

Now I understand that people cheat for many different reasons.  Let me be the first to say that if you are cheating on me because of something i’m doing or NOT doing for that matter…holla at me!  Maybe there’s something I can do to change your perception.  Maybe I can work on the issue.  If I can’t…see ya later!  No need to cheat.  If i’m not making you completely happy then move on.  I have no problem with that. But I do have a problem with being cheated on and I won’t stand for it.

Also, if your man/woman is going out getting what they’re missing at home how mad could you really be?  I mean seriously.  You know dude like head and you ain’t giving him any then what?  He finds that ish somewhere else!  It’s simple.  Don’t believe the bull you hear about it being “ok” if you don’t do it.  That’s a lie.  He will find it somewhere else and so will women.  Whether it be oral sex, or sex period, nobody wants a lousy sex partner.  So if you’re not giving oral sex at all one may call you a cheater and say that they are being cheated out of one of life’s most guilty pleasures!

But for the record ladies and gentlemen, ORAL SEX IS CHEATING! 

What are your thoughts?

Oral Sex After Intercourse?

 

Alright so on Monday we talked about your decision to Swallow or Spit and that brought about another question.  Todays topic is:

 

Oral Sex After Intercouse.

Are you one of those people who only have oral sex before intercourse or are you one of those people that just don’t give a damn?!  I’m going to try and remain neutral while writing this but…imagine giving head after anal sex.  That’s some nasty ish!!  How do you feel about this?  Really.  Be honest.  Does it matter to you that he just pulled his penis out of your va-jay-jay dripping in your juices and now he’s hinting that he wants to put it…in your mouth?  I’m almost certain that men want it whenever they can get it.  But honestly, would you be offended or upset if you didn’t get head after intercourse even though you wanted it?

 

I’ll address this topic right now.  As for me and my mouth…there will be no oral sex of any kind jumping off after intercourse unless the penis has been properly cleaned.  I’ll do the cleaning.  I don’t mind.  But i’ll be damned…it has to be done!

I’ll take oral sex before intercourse.  It gets me in the right kind of mood.  Oral sex after intercourse…not a big deal to me.  What about you?  What do you think of this topic?