Have You Ever Made Love Until You Cried?

 

Have you ever had “Crying Sex?”  If you haven’t you’re missing out.  Before people jump to conclusions, you are NOT crying because you’re in pain.  You are crying because you are in complete bliss.  Your body is tingling and your heart is beating fast.  You’re overwhelmed with pleasure and then your emotions take over and you…CRY!  

Now this isn’t something that happens when you’re having sex with joe blow.  This is usually experienced when you are having sex with someone you truly love and care about.  I know it sounds weird to start crying in the middle of sex but if you are with someone who loves and care about you then he/she will understand  and may even shed a tear themselves.  It’s a beautiful thing.   You know what describes it best?  The scene from Baby Boy!  It’s just like that.  You’re crying and saying I love you and kissing them and…it’s mind blowing.   I’ve had the wonderful pleasure of  experiencing it!  It felt great!  Everyone has to have “Crying Sex” at least once in their lifetime!  You’ll wont be disappointed!   

When is it likely you’ll experience “Crying Sex?”

1.) After you’ve both climaxed and now you’re in for the long haul.  You may experience “Crying Sex” at that point!

2.) This is a big one….AFTER A FIGHT!  Everybody loves loves loves makeup sex!  This is the perfect opportunity for “Crying Sex!”  (BTW, it’s not something you have to force to happen.  It happens on it’s own.)  You have a lot of frustration and penned up emotion.  Your emotions plus the pleasurable sex you are having is the perfect concoction for “Crying Sex!”  You cry, they may cry.  You tell them you love them and it’s all theirs and everything will be alright after that!  Well not really.  But when you experience “Crying Sex” nothing else in the world matters but that moment you’re in right then and there.

Find someone, fall in love and shoot for “Crying Sex” everytime!!!

Oh and enjoy the video, Prince’s “Adore” is sure to get you in the mood if you aren’t already!  Go ‘head.  Get your day started off right!

Quotes of the Day

 

 

 

“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

 

-Sam Keen

 

“Love is like a friendship caught on fire: In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.”

-Bruce Lee

 

“True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.”

-Same Keen

 

These are some good quotes!  I usually post two but I had to add an extra one in there today!  They all ring true to me.  Bruce Lee is so on point when describing love.  The intensity of love changes throughout a relationship but it still remains strong.   Just in a different way. 

Man, the one who gets my love better watch out!  He’s not going to know what to do with himself!

Quote of the Day

 

Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why its

called falling in love, because you don’t force

yourself to fall, you just fall.

~ Unknown ~ 

 

Isn’t this the truth?  They say you’re not supposed to look for love.  You have to let love find you.  Falling in love is a beautiful thing.  You don’t even know it’s happening until it’s happened.  Hopefully when it’s all said and done you fell for someone who feels the same way about you!

Love Lesson #1: Stop Looking For Perfection

 

Nobody’s perfect.  We hear that over and over again.  That’s because it’s true.  None of us are pefect by a long shot yet and still we are searching for the perfect man or the perfect woman. 

Some of us are alone because we look too deep into everything a person says and does.  While i’m not saying settle for less than what you want I am saying that what we want is perfection and that doesn’t exist.

So what I don’t wear my hair a certain way and so what if I stumble over my words a couple of times.  That doesn’t mean that i’m not a good woman.  Better yet it doesn’t mean that i’m incapable of loving you the way you need to be loved and making your life worth while. 

I’ve learned over the years that no one person is going to be exactly what your looking for or exactly what you want but they can be exactly what you need. 

So take the blinders off and look at the important people in your life with a new frame of mind!

What Keeps Us Holding On?

 

When you’ve been in a relationship for a significant amount of time we seem to find it hard to leave.  Why?  Because love is a powerful drug!  The sad thing is that in most cases the love is lacking or not there at all.  So what is it that keeps us there?  I think what kept me in my last relationship was the fact that I had been with him so long.  We lived together for so many years it really was almost impossible to see me being without him…and that right there was the problem.  He was my life.  I knew and understood that whatever decisions I made directly affected him and with that in mind I made decisions that would benefit us both.  Nothing wrong with that…except the fact that he didn’t give a damn about me when it was time for him to make decisions.  There were a lot of reasons I stayed.  I stayed because even though times were hard I loved him enough to work through it with him.  I thought I could make him a better person.  I thought that me pushing him to do what he needed to do was the least I could for him.  But I was wrong.  I was only enabling him.  I wasn’t helping.  He never changed.  To this day his is still struggling, moving from place to place and constantly on the job search.  People change when they want to.  You can’t change people.  I learned that the hard way and after 8 years and a baby I finally get it.  Damn!  You stay because you want things to work.  You stay because you’ve invested so much time and energy.  You stay because you think it’ll get better.  You stay because you love them.  What are your thoughts on this?

We Had Sex!…Are We Together Or Not?

 

A lot of people say that sex confuses things.  I’ve heard a lot of men say “It’s just sex!  What’s confusing about it?”  Here’s where I think it gets a little tricky…When you’re really into a person and in your mind you would love to take things further with them, having sex with them CONFUSES THINGS!  I think that for most women sex is a very emotional experience.  If you are not going into the situation with a clear head then obviously after the sex you are not gonna all of a sudden see things any clearer and to be quite honest the dude probably isn’t going to change his mind about how he feels over some bootay.  This goes both ways.  Contrary to what people think, you can’t keep a person with sex alone and if you do what type of relationship to you have?  Really.  Now I know some men and some women that can have sex with a person and then be like “What?  It was just sex!”  I’ve never been one of those people. 

There are two types of situations.  You have the people who understand that it’s nothing.  We ended up having sex or we agreed to have sex and that’s the extent of it.  But what about the people who are obviously feeling one another but haven’t made it clear whether or not they’re together?  Does sex just confuse things for them?  Is a title necessary before the sex?  IDK.  I just have a lot of questions.  What I really want is your answer to this question:

Does having sex with someone you’re obviously interested in before you make it official lessen your chances of becoming that person’s man/woman?

Let’s talk about it!  Don’t be afraid.  I won’t bite…although I am passionate about this!

Don’t Take Away My Choice

“Jody, I know you love me.  I also know you fuck other girls.  I don’t like it, but I know you.  So just be real with me.  Will you be honest?”

 
“If you can take it. You’re starting to get on my nerves with this.”

                  
“I’m getting on your nerves?  And you’re the one fucking around.  You get with any of them girls
you sell dresses to?”

                  
“A few.  Feel better now? I love you, girl.  You got my son and you’ll probably be my wife.  You want me to be honest?”

“Yeah, I do.”

                  
“You’re my woman.  Them other hos is tricks.  I make love to you, I want to be with you, but I fuck other females occasionally.  I don’t know why, I just do.  That’s the situation.  You feel better now?  That’s some honesty for you. Deal with it.  I love you enough to be honest.”

                 
“If you loved me, you wouldn’t lie to me all the time.” ~~~ Baby Boy

 

I can’t stand a liar.  That’s some bullshit right there.  You lie to me because you love me.  No nucca, tell me the truth because you love me and care about my feelings.  If we are in a committed relationship there really is no reason to lie.  You shouldn’t be doing anything that you have to lie about.  Lying is a vicious cycle and once you start you can’t stop.  You have to keep covering your lie with another lie.  Eventually you’ll slip up or get tired of the cycle.  I believe that everything in the dark comes to light so what’s the point of lying?  Anyway, how do you guys feel about this?  Men do you really lie to women because you love them?  How about not doing things you have to lie about.  When you lie to me you take away my right to make a choice in the situation.