I know you might be pissed at me because of my new lover and to be totally honest with you it has caught me by surprise too. Who would have ever guessed that a guy like him…hung like him…would have such problems finding out where and who you are. I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want to make him feel inadequate but shit…ain’t he? I’m really wanting to grip him up by the collar and tell him that he ain’t been hitting the spot. But I really like him. G’ spot…we go wayyyyy back and I know you’re used to getting special attention but please don’t be mad. How do I tell him he’s wack? How do I say to this man “You aint satisfying me?” I know that it needs to be said because I don’t want him thinking that he’s putting it down when he really aint. I mean I want the sex between us to be good especially if he’s one I want to keep around. But what am I to say, how am I supposed to let him know that you exist and feel neglected? I need answers.
Sincerely,
Hot and Bothered
Ladies how would you tell the man you’re involved with that he aint hitting “the spot?” What’s the secret to hitting “the spot?” Fellas would you be offended if your woman had “the talk” with you? Let’s talk about it!
