I’ve heard this question asked quite a few times and I can’t believe that people are confused about this. It doesn’t matter how you put it, it is what it is. People try to play with words and trivialize what it is. Here’s my take…
Oral sex IS cheating. First off it’s called oral sex! Any form of sex with someone other than the person you are with is cheating. There are no two ways about it. It doesn’t make a difference if you’re giving it or getting it.
Second of all, how did you put yourself in this compromising situation? You had to lie at some point whether it was before or after the deed was done.
If you are in a committed relationship why would you be giving someone oral sex? Especially if that’s all it was. Sheeit if you’re gonna cheat you might as well go all out because this could damn well cost you your relationship! Better be some good stuff!
Now I understand that people cheat for many different reasons. Let me be the first to say that if you are cheating on me because of something i’m doing or NOT doing for that matter…holla at me! Maybe there’s something I can do to change your perception. Maybe I can work on the issue. If I can’t…see ya later! No need to cheat. If i’m not making you completely happy then move on. I have no problem with that. But I do have a problem with being cheated on and I won’t stand for it.
Also, if your man/woman is going out getting what they’re missing at home how mad could you really be? I mean seriously. You know dude like head and you ain’t giving him any then what? He finds that ish somewhere else! It’s simple. Don’t believe the bull you hear about it being “ok” if you don’t do it. That’s a lie. He will find it somewhere else and so will women. Whether it be oral sex, or sex period, nobody wants a lousy sex partner. So if you’re not giving oral sex at all one may call you a cheater and say that they are being cheated out of one of life’s most guilty pleasures!
But for the record ladies and gentlemen, ORAL SEX IS CHEATING!
What are your thoughts?
January 13, 2009 at 1:25 pm
I miss you nicole,
Hells yes thats cheating come on now. Thats just an excuse for people to use. Heres a question that is constantly debated nicole ” is getting numbers cheating”?
January 16, 2009 at 7:26 pm
Hell yeah it’s cheating!! I wish my girl would be like, “it was only oral sex”. Yo! You had a dick in your mouth…that’s cheatin! LMAO. Same thing goes for guys too — you had some chach in your face….you cheated bruh.
The getting numbers thing is interesting. I think it’s cheating. What were you gonna do with them?? If you’re doing something that you’d be upset that your significant other was doing…it’s probably cheating.
January 18, 2009 at 11:43 pm
Hey Toya! I miss u too girly!
I’m glad we can agree that it’s cheating. I really couldn’t believe that people were confused by this.
Yo! You had a dick in your mouth…that’s cheatin! – Preston
Out of control! lol…yeah that’s definitely cheatin’!
Now the getting numbers situation is a whole different story. While i think it’s cheating i’m sure there are a ton of people who’ll debate this issue.
I agree with Preston. It’s cheating if you got the number and didn’t tell your significant other about it. What was the purpose of getting the number? If you were eyeing this chick the whole time at the club and imagining her in all her naked glory then hell yeah it’s cheating! the same thing goes for women.
Preston…always good to see you around here!