Is Getting/Giving Oral Sex Cheating?

 

 

I’ve heard this question asked quite a few times and I can’t believe that people are confused about this.   It doesn’t matter how you put it, it is what it is.  People try to play with words and trivialize what it is.  Here’s my take…

Oral sex IS cheating.  First off it’s called oral sex!  Any form of sex with someone other than the person you are with is cheating.  There are no two ways about it.  It doesn’t make a difference if you’re giving it or getting it. 

Second of all, how did you put yourself in this compromising situation?  You had to lie at some point whether it was before or after the deed was done. 

If you are in a committed relationship why would you be giving someone oral sex?  Especially if that’s all it was.  Sheeit if you’re gonna cheat you might as well go all out because this could damn well cost you your relationship!  Better be some good stuff! 

Now I understand that people cheat for many different reasons.  Let me be the first to say that if you are cheating on me because of something i’m doing or NOT doing for that matter…holla at me!  Maybe there’s something I can do to change your perception.  Maybe I can work on the issue.  If I can’t…see ya later!  No need to cheat.  If i’m not making you completely happy then move on.  I have no problem with that. But I do have a problem with being cheated on and I won’t stand for it.

Also, if your man/woman is going out getting what they’re missing at home how mad could you really be?  I mean seriously.  You know dude like head and you ain’t giving him any then what?  He finds that ish somewhere else!  It’s simple.  Don’t believe the bull you hear about it being “ok” if you don’t do it.  That’s a lie.  He will find it somewhere else and so will women.  Whether it be oral sex, or sex period, nobody wants a lousy sex partner.  So if you’re not giving oral sex at all one may call you a cheater and say that they are being cheated out of one of life’s most guilty pleasures!

But for the record ladies and gentlemen, ORAL SEX IS CHEATING! 

What are your thoughts?

Have You Ever Made Love Until You Cried?

 

Have you ever had “Crying Sex?”  If you haven’t you’re missing out.  Before people jump to conclusions, you are NOT crying because you’re in pain.  You are crying because you are in complete bliss.  Your body is tingling and your heart is beating fast.  You’re overwhelmed with pleasure and then your emotions take over and you…CRY!  

Now this isn’t something that happens when you’re having sex with joe blow.  This is usually experienced when you are having sex with someone you truly love and care about.  I know it sounds weird to start crying in the middle of sex but if you are with someone who loves and care about you then he/she will understand  and may even shed a tear themselves.  It’s a beautiful thing.   You know what describes it best?  The scene from Baby Boy!  It’s just like that.  You’re crying and saying I love you and kissing them and…it’s mind blowing.   I’ve had the wonderful pleasure of  experiencing it!  It felt great!  Everyone has to have “Crying Sex” at least once in their lifetime!  You’ll wont be disappointed!   

When is it likely you’ll experience “Crying Sex?”

1.) After you’ve both climaxed and now you’re in for the long haul.  You may experience “Crying Sex” at that point!

2.) This is a big one….AFTER A FIGHT!  Everybody loves loves loves makeup sex!  This is the perfect opportunity for “Crying Sex!”  (BTW, it’s not something you have to force to happen.  It happens on it’s own.)  You have a lot of frustration and penned up emotion.  Your emotions plus the pleasurable sex you are having is the perfect concoction for “Crying Sex!”  You cry, they may cry.  You tell them you love them and it’s all theirs and everything will be alright after that!  Well not really.  But when you experience “Crying Sex” nothing else in the world matters but that moment you’re in right then and there.

Find someone, fall in love and shoot for “Crying Sex” everytime!!!

Oh and enjoy the video, Prince’s “Adore” is sure to get you in the mood if you aren’t already!  Go ‘head.  Get your day started off right!

Quotes of the Day

 

 

 

“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

 

-Sam Keen

 

“Love is like a friendship caught on fire: In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.”

-Bruce Lee

 

“True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.”

-Same Keen

 

These are some good quotes!  I usually post two but I had to add an extra one in there today!  They all ring true to me.  Bruce Lee is so on point when describing love.  The intensity of love changes throughout a relationship but it still remains strong.   Just in a different way. 

Man, the one who gets my love better watch out!  He’s not going to know what to do with himself!